Uncommon Grounds

Whats NOT hot

PROM SEASON!!

Sports

New kid on the block

Flirt of the week!!

PDA (guys perspectice)

PDA (girls perspective)

OPPORTUNITY

"whats hot"

School fighting

"whats hot"

Dumb girls

Flirt of the week!

How to get a girl

Bro-code

2010-03-30T12:26:00.000-07:00

Okay so Kevin and I both are very sorry for not keeping you updated on everything but were gonna change that! Its not hot that we have been keeping you guys out of the surviving loop..so round two of surviving begins!

2010-03-29T11:34:00.000-07:00

Prom season has arrived and hopefully every girl is excited including myself! Its the few months before the prom were all the drama begins and the dress stores explode. If you want to have a successful prom day you have to start early. A big thing is making sure you have your dress because that can either make or brake you on your big day. You want to keep it elegant, don't be that one person that shows up in something casual. So instead of just throwing out my opinion, i found a great website that will help you be completely successful on your prom day

http://www.prompartydress.com/prom-dress_advice.html

Remember going solo and just with your friends is not so bad. You can have a great time as long as your surrounded by people you like and will laugh and dance with.

2010-03-03T17:58:00.000-08:00

Can your sports really have an impact on your social life? It truely can.. lets give you an example

Now was that cool to watch?
nahhh i dont think sooooo.. lets see another

Now those were cool weren't they?

so this pretty much speaks for itself. You don't want to be out there reppin a sport that people make fun of. Try picking something you know people will be around and watching. A lot of people get together at school sporting events, the cool ones that is.

2010-03-03T09:55:00.000-08:00

We have been giving you advice assuming you have been around your peers for awhile. What happens if you used to be cool but now you moved and need to start all over again! We didn't forget about you we want you to survive being the new kid

I found some great tips on getting a head start on making some friends..

My advice, being new can be a fresh start. Dress casual with some style. Don't be intimidated and have fun in your new surroundings!

http://www.wikihow.com/Survive-Being-the-New-Kid

2010-03-02T14:47:00.001-08:00

Thank goodness! its another week therefore its time for another flirt! Lately all every one has been hearing about is john Mayer's infamous playboy interview so he gladly earns this title.

He dished all his dirty details about all his past relationships. Now this may appear to be something cool to do because a famous man did it but in high school if you spill the beans you look desperate. Ways to be successful in a relationship is to earn trust with your partner even in high school. If you go around spilling all the dirt you may be heading for a slap in the face. Keep things under wrap even if your boys are hounding you to know. It will make girls trust you more and make things easier when you want to be with the respected girl next door.

Check out his interview: read and learn what not to do!

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/02/10/john-mayer-jessica-simpso_n_456566.html

2010-03-02T14:37:00.000-08:00

Dom, you are very correct with your opinion on PDA (public display of affection).
Guys, i know you might always want to be all over your girl but in school its just not th right time. Yeah you can give them a peck or a hug when your going away from class, or hold hands in the hall, but anything more then that is over the line. PEOPLE DON'T WANT TO SEE YOU MAKING OUT IN THE HALL. You might think you look cute but really its gross and people don't want to see that. And also Dom your 100% right with wearing the clothes. Girls, please once a week max wearing your boyfriends hoodie, you just look like a dirtbag if you wear it everyday, or even twice a week. Guys don't try to show off by feeling up your girl in the hall or doing whatever, if you really like her it shouldn't even matter what other people thing.

Not cute....

2010-03-01T17:56:00.000-08:00

PDA, what a good high school topic. If your in a relationship you love it, if your single you hate it. So what is a happy medium that can help you out when dating in high school. For this i can only give you my opinion, Its okay to show affection..the occasional hand hold and quick peck before heading off to class or home. That in most point of views is the classic cute couple but when two people are caught at the tongue is can totally give you the wrong image. People don't like to see you hanging around corners making out and touching all over! keep it G at school unless you want the rep of being the scum couple. It can give you a bad name around school. Another thing that may not be too hot is you wearing your boyfriends clothes...everyday. Once and awhile the occasional sweatshirt is cute! But a daily outfit from your boy can really make you look too clingy.

This man can be considered the PDA pimp according to Urban dictonary....NOT HOT

2010-03-01T17:33:00.000-08:00

Okay so living the teen live can be one big lazy party...if you wanna be a loser. One mayjor thing you need to consider is getting a job, it can really make your life 100% easier. One it can give you a lot of respect from your parents. Taking the indicative to get out and get a job can give you some major brownie points. Two it can help out A LOT when your in a relationship. You don't wanna be mooching cash from your parents when you need to take a girl out on a date and it will impress her knowing you can go out and spend some cash around the holidays :)

Here a some rules that i found that might help you get off you feet and willing to get out and work!

http://www.kensavage.com/archives/real-world-advice-high-school-students/

Rule #5. Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your grandparents had a different word for burger flipping. They called it opportunity. They weren’t embarrassed making minimum wage either. They would have been embarrassed to sit around talking about Kurt Cobain all weekend.
Rule #6. It’s not your parents’ fault. If you screw up, you are responsible. This is the flip side of “It’s my life,” and “You’re not the boss of me,” and other eloquent proclamations of your generation. When you turn 18, it’s on your dime. Don’t whine about it or you’ll sound like a baby boomer.

2010-03-01T15:07:00.000-08:00

The whole point of the 'whats hot' post is to give readers some background on hot topics for conversation so maybe if they're hanging with friends and the topic comes up they wont be lost. They are also good topics to talk about when first meeting people.

Olympics are over! G-gold S-silver B-bronze T-total
Final Medal Count G S B T

The closing event of the Olympics was one of the most exciting events for everyone but especially for hockey fans and Canadians.

USA vs. Canada hockey game
The biggest rivals ever! USA beat Canada for the 1st time in 47 games in the middle of the Olympics and now in the gold round Canada had a chance to get revenge.

With 24.7 seconds left in the 3rd(final) period USA scored a goal to tie up the game and send it into overtime. In over time about half was through, Pittsburgh Penguins own Sidney Crosby who plays for Canada scored a goal on Ryan Miller of the Buffalo Sabers, to Give Canada the gold medal.

Crosby Celebrates after game winning goal in over time.

2010-03-01T14:54:00.000-08:00

fight from greyson schofield on Vimeo.

(Sorry for the offensive language)

What does this accomplish?

Maybe a black eye or too, gossip around the school for about a day about who kicked who's ass then everyone forgets it ever happened. Don't fight at school. Don't fight anywhere but if you are going to fight don't do it at school.

Most school fights are over opposite sex's. Guys will fight to protect their girls and try to act tough and girls will do the same thing for their man. Its really not worth getting suspended for 5 days or getting grounded just to get a few punches on someone you completely despise. Just ignore them or find another way to settle it. You might think fighting makes you look cool but it just makes you look like a dirtbag and after about 2 days people forget about your fight and it doesn't even matter.

2010-02-22T13:47:00.000-08:00

This is the first post of "whats hot" but expect more to come. The whole point of the post is to give readers some background on hot topics for conversation so maybe if they're hanging with friends and the topic comes up they wont be lost. They are also good topics to talk about when first meeting people.

Today's topic is the Olympics. Its very popular in conversation right now. Although you may enjoy watching ice dancing, curling, or speedskating they most likely wont be talked about. The bigger sports will be more popular and here what you need to know.

As of right now the medal count: G-gold S-Silver B-Bronze

----------------------------G S B Total

United States	7	7	10	24
Germany	7	8	5	20
Norway	5	3	5	13
South Korea	4	4	1	9
Canada	4	4	1	9
Austria	3	3	3	9
Russia	2	3	4	9

Olympic Luger Died after a crash on a practice run. He hit a steel pole at 88 mph and was killed on impact. The video is very graphic. Click HERE to watch.

Also USA hockey faced-off against their rivals Canada and won with an upset 5-3. USA goaltender Ryan Miller of the Buffalo Sabers had an outstanding game with over 45 saves.

Shaun White wins gold in Half pipe snowboarding in first round and doesn't even need a second run. Video below.

Shaun White Wins US Snowboarding Gold Medal "News" - The best home videos are here

2010-02-22T11:17:00.000-08:00

When your a teenager sometimes the things you focus on are being in a relationship so girls will dumb themselves down thinking guys will think its "cute" but...dumb girls are not cute. Some girls try to act dumb when they flirt cause the think its cute or it attracts guys....well it doesn't. Guys really cant wrap their heads around the idea of dating someone for a long time when she can't even spell the word orange. Take it from me, Kevin,if you want to be successful in the dating scene you want us to take you seriously. Guys are not always the brightest crayons in the box so we like our girl to keep us learning. Chances are guys will just take advantage of you if your not too smart and your heads always in the clouds. We like you to show us that you can used big words and read a good book and explain it to us in the end. So my advice for the day on how to be a good teen is to not dumb yourself down for a relationship, be yourself..and lets hope being yourself means your not naturally dumb! cause i cant help you there!

2010-02-22T11:09:00.000-08:00

This week Nicole also known as "Snooki" has earned the title of flirt of the week! With her sad lonely single days on jersey shore it really put her flirting to the test. But now with her cute new guido of a man she’s flirted her way into a successful relationship. Although her flirting may not be what you want to admire, so were going to give you a few simpler ways to flirt with the cute guy next door ;)

We found great flirting tips that will help you step up your game and snag your crush because when you’re a teenager you don't want to be known as the girl who flirts with everyone or gives off the wrong signs to guys!

http://www.lifescript.com/Life/Relationships/Love-101/10_Flirting_Tips.aspx?gclid=CKimz-fWhqACFYNo5Qodw0Qdmw&trans=1&du=1&ef_id=1350:3:s_b9a8d55a4aded624c8510c2361d5c891_2540296805:S4LaqNBbricAAHLfJ50AAADA:20100222192736

2010-02-18T10:14:00.000-08:00

Nice post kev! Lets just hope when you talk to a girl on facebook or on the internet she doesn't think your some creepo!

Having online connections can be a great way to stay intouch with friends. So being a teenager you want to have one of these. It makes it much easier to start connections. Theres just one thing to worrie about. The world of the internet can be great..but it can also be very dangerous. Part of being a smart teen means your paying attention to the dangers of an internet site. Don't give out personal information that you may not want someone else to get a hold of, and dont get caught talking smack about someone from a wall post! More importantly don't let yourself be bullied on one of these sites. Part of being sucessful means being strong and knowing how to prevent online harrasment or creepy encounters with people. Pay attention to these ways to prevent any future harm from the computer.

http://www.fema.gov/kids/on_safety.htm

yes i know they may seem far from anything a teenager might listen too but it can help you stay on the internet safely. It will keep you from getting close to the wrong crowd within the computer

2010-02-18T08:38:00.000-08:00

If your in high school pick-up lines aren't going to get you very far. There are some basic steps to follow.

So say you want to get this girl really badly and you don't even know her. This is tough. Usually you might have to wait for a weird turn of events like ending up at a friends house while she's there or being assigned seats next to her in Spanish class. If you have no way of getting to know her maybe ask a friend to introduce her.

Okay now that you know this girl its very important that you get her number. Don't ask a friend for her number then randomly just text her...that's creepy. If you ever talking to her in the halls or maybe at a friends house just simply ask her for it. whats the worst thing that can happen? she says no and then you know shes not interested and move on.

Okay so you have her number! Its a chance game now. Start texting her and be friendly. At this point you need to just be yourself and you will be able to tell if she starts to like you or not. Maybe you don't have texting, then you might have to AIM her or "chat" with her on facebook.

The rest should be easy, make sure you stay out of the "friend zone" and start hanging out with her and eventually ask her out when you think your both ready.

United States

2010-02-13T12:54:00.000-08:00

Yes, the bro code is a true thing. It may not be written down (actually it is now in the book below) but it is a spoken law between men with certain rules.

There are a few very important bro codes that ever bro should know:
1.)Bros before hoes- the most important rule if you want to keep popularity, friends, and respect. Never leave hanging out with the boys to go be with your girlfriend.

2.)Ex's are off limits-ALWAYS. No bending this rule. No exceptions. Even if your bro gives your permission. Some people may say "after four months they're fair game" but that is not true!

3.)Every other Urinal-when in the bathroom "draining the main vain" dont take the urinal next to a bro, you can wait or find a stall. Exceptions: if the bro is a very close friend or if you have showered with this person after a sports activity.

4.)If a bro asks another bro to keep a secret, he shall take that secret to his grave- This is what makes us bros not chicks.

Breaking the bro code results in instant combustion as below. Don't test the system.

2010-02-11T12:38:00.000-08:00

Regina: I love your skirt! Where'd you get it?

Girl: It's my mom's old skirt from the eighties.

Regina: Oh, vintage. So adorable.

Girl: Thanks.( girl walks away)

Regina: (to Cady) That is the ugliest effing* skirt I have ever seen.

Do you ever fear that your about to be judged on what your wearing?We all has those concerns, well don't worry, Everyone should have their own style. When we mean own style we don't mean trying to make yourself covered in chains and loads of black eyeliner to stick out. There are much simpler ways to make yourself stand out as apose to looking like a scary witch.

Dressing in all black makes you unapproachable and often times it covers up your true personality. The way you dress should not make you standoffish. If your just not sure on how to keep it stylish instead of trashy try checking out seventeen magazines advice on all different body types!

If you have an hourglass figure try the link below
http://www.seventeen.com/fashion/body-type/hourglass-body-type-tips

If your tall try this one!

http://www.seventeen.com/fashion/body-type/tall-body-type-tips
and,
If you have a petite frame check out this one
http://http//www.seventeen.com/fashion/body-type/petite-body-type-tips

If you pay close attention to these tips your guaranteed to be a little more successful in picking out a wardrobe that will attract attention in a good way making it just a bit easier to be a comfortable teenager. Remember that dressing well can also help out with job interviews and working!